Sleep
I have a friend who told me once, when I asked him how he slept the night before, that he “slept
like a baby.”
I said, “Really? That’s great.”
He said, “Yeah. I woke up every three hours screaming because I had just messed myself.”
Being neurodivergent means I don’t detect humor or sarcasm a lot of the time, but I laughed at
the thought of him in that situation.
I have suffered from sleeplessness since my mid-twenties when I first became aware that I had
bipolar disorder, but sleeplessness is something we all experience to some degree at various
times in our lives. I tend to get stuck with racing thoughts. Racing thoughts = no sleep.
I think nothing of one or two nights without sleep, but by night four, it gets a little weird. Some
medical schools put their students through three days of sleep deprivation to simulate
psychosis. I think that’s pretty clever.
Why is sleep important? Sleep is not a luxury—it is one of the foundations of physical and
mental wellness. During sleep, our bodies repair themselves, our brains organize memories, our
immune systems are strengthened, and our emotions are reset. When we consistently get too
little sleep, our mood, concentration, judgment, and energy all suffer. Over time, poor sleep
increases the risk of depression, anxiety, heart disease, diabetes, obesity, and many other
health problems. Simply put, good sleep helps us become the best version of ourselves.
The Psalmist speaks regarding sleep. Like in Psalms 4:8 where it says, “I will both lie down
and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD, make me lie down in safety.”
Jesus had the peace that allows for good sleep when he was out on the sea with the disciples.
He was sleeping soundly before the frightened men woke him up to calm the storm.
I would like to share with you a few tips for better sleep. Try to go to bed and wake up at the
same time every day, even on weekends. Avoid caffeine, nicotine, and heavy meals several
hours before bedtime. Turn off televisions, phones, and other screens at least 30 to 60 minutes
before going to bed.
With the last bit of time before turning the lights out, when the day quiets down, I read a chapter
from a book by a Christian author. Finally I settle into my pillow and meditate or pray. By that I
mean, I try to listen to what God has been trying to tell me that day, but I was distracted by the
waking hours.
Sleep is probably the most important aspect of personal wellness, and trying to change it
permanently for the better can seem like a pretty daunting task. Remember, a lifestyle can’t be
changed much in one night—or even one week. You are working on something that has been a
lifetime in the making, but I have seen it work in my own life and in the lives of those I have
helped.
In Esther it is recorded that when the king couldn’t sleep, he had his servants retrieve the public
records and had them read to him. Reading as a sleep aid was a thing even during ancient
Judea. Most of all though, the less you worry over losing sleep the more likely you are to get
good sleep and get it consistently.
If you struggle with quality sleep, I encourage you to consider making adjustments based on the
tips you’ve heard today. Good sleep may seem like a magic trick, but the ways I have discussed
are practical and easy to implement. A good sleep ritual doesn’t have to be a chore. It can be
one of life’s greatest blessings.
